Many people come to me carrying the same hesitation: “Doctor, I want to do something about how I look—but is it really okay?” In my clinical experience, this doubt does not come from within. It comes from stigma, judgement, and outdated beliefs around cosmetic and plastic surgery. Let me address this honestly and calmly.
Why do people feel guilty about wanting cosmetic surgery?
Because cosmetic surgery is still misunderstood and unfairly judged by society.
People fear being labelled “vain”
There is pressure to accept ageing without choice
Surgery is wrongly seen as deception
Social commentary often lacks empathy
Dr. Milan Doshi’s Tip:
Wanting to look better does not mean you dislike yourself—it means you care for yourself.
Is ageing natural—and does that mean you must accept everything?
Ageing is natural, but choosing how you age is a personal decision.
Wrinkles, sagging, and body changes are normal
So is wanting to feel confident despite them
Medical science offers safe options today
Choice matters more than judgement
Dr. Milan Doshi’s Tip:
Accepting yourself and improving yourself are not mutually exclusive.
Why is cosmetic surgery judged more harshly than makeup or fitness?
Because surgery is seen as ‘artificial,’ while other enhancements are socially normalised.
Makeup alters appearance temporarily
Gym changes the body slowly
Surgery is permanent, so it attracts scrutiny
All are forms of self-improvement
Dr. Milan Doshi’s Tip:
The method may differ—but the intention is the same: feeling better about yourself.
Is cosmetic surgery only for the rich, famous, or vain?
No. This is one of the biggest myths surrounding cosmetic surgery.
Most patients are regular working individuals
Many seek surgery after childbirth, weight loss, or ageing
Confidence and comfort are the main goals
Vanity is not the driving factor in most cases
Dr. Milan Doshi’s Tip:
The quietest patients are often the happiest—because their results look natural.
Does choosing cosmetic surgery mean rejecting your natural self?
No. It means choosing to enhance something that bothers you personally.
Surgery does not change who you are
It addresses specific concerns
It restores comfort and confidence
Identity remains intact
Dr. Milan Doshi’s Tip:
Cosmetic surgery should enhance you, not replace you.
Is it wrong to want help for how you look?
No. Seeking help is a sign of self-awareness, not weakness.
Mental and emotional wellbeing matters
Appearance can affect confidence deeply
Asking for help is the first positive step
You deserve to feel good in your body
Dr. Milan Doshi’s Tip:
There is courage in acknowledging discomfort—and clarity in addressing it.
What really matters before deciding on cosmetic surgery?
Your reasons, expectations, and the surgeon you choose.
Do it for yourself—not for others
Have realistic expectations
Choose a board-certified surgeon
Avoid rushing or pressure
Dr. Milan Doshi’s Tip:
The right decision made calmly always feels lighter.
Conclusion – Final Words from Dr. Milan Doshi
Yes—it is absolutely okay to have cosmetic surgery. Wanting to look good, feel confident, and age gracefully is not vanity; it is self-care. In my clinical experience, patients who choose cosmetic surgery thoughtfully, without guilt or pressure, often feel more comfortable, confident, and at peace with themselves.
Never let harsh words or outdated opinions dictate how you feel about your body. It is yours.
And any decision to improve how you look and feel should always belong to you alone—guided by clarity, not stigma.
